When a person said something,or told you a meaningful story,or throw you some advise,who knows behind it exist how many stories people don't know?I mean maybe it was his or her experience as well.Every human have there own power of judgement.Everybody have their sences.Different people have their different character and mind.so,need not care too much on what others say especially those who just a 'tin kosong'...Justify and make your own decision!